Did you know that Valentine’s Day is one of the biggest opportunities of the year for scammers to take advantage of seniors? During this day aging seniors may feel especially lonely and isolated. Do you know why online scammers and cyber criminals tend to target Older Americans when committing financial crimes? It is because seniors are often vulnerable, have access to money, and are more easily fooled than younger adults who may have grown up using the internet.

A leading form of online financial exploitation aimed at older adults is the romance scam. How does this scam occur? If a senior adult is online and seems to be lonely or isolated a cyber criminal will attempt to gain the trust of the senior adult by expressing love and care for him or her. Unfortunately, the whole exchange is a premeditated act that usually involves a false identity and an attempt to gain personal information and ill-gotten financial gain.

We have a few valuable tips older adults can use to protect themselves, both financially and emotionally, this Valentine’s Day here in our blog.

1. How can I Spot a “Lonely Heart” Scam?

• If someone introduces himself or herself online, whether through social media, email or message boards, if you have never met them in person, be extremely cautious.

• If someone seems too perfect, they probably are.

• Often, after meeting in a shared forum, like Facebook, scammers will often try to get you to communicate in a private online setting, like email, messenger apps, or even by phone. Do not do it.

• Do not give in to emotional manipulation. It is a serious red-flag if someone online tells you they love you after a brief period of time and then they start pushing you to trust them with your personal information or money.

2. How can I Protect Myself From Fraud?

• Absolutely never send money or credit card information to someone you have never met in person.

• Absolutely never send personal information that can be used for identity theft.

• Absolutely cut off contact as soon as someone online starts asking you for credit card, bank, or government ID numbers.

• Remember, a scammer’s story may not add up. Therefore, it is best to ignore uninitiated contact, but you can also gauge honesty by asking specific questions about the details in a person’s online profile. Do your research. For example, many scammers steal photos to use in their profiles.

• If you think you are being targeted, immediately cease all communication and contact the police and the oversight function for the online forum where you met them.

If you or someone you know has been the victim of an online financial scam, do not wait to contact the authorities. Time is of the essence when attempting to catch a cyber criminal before another person is harmed. We also encourage you not to wait to contact an elder law attorney to learn more about your rights and appropriate courses of action. He will be able to give you advice on how to protect yourself. Perhaps even more important, your attorney can provide you with guidance on the estate planning you need to ensure that should you be unable to make decisions for yourself, there is someone with legal authority who is able to act on your behalf.

At David H. Jacoby Elder Law Advocate, P. A., we are focused on providing thorough, ethical, and timely solutions for our clients and their loved ones. We encourage you to contact us and schedule a meeting with us.